Sunday, June 29, 2008

Willie and the Woods


When I mentioned a new "gang" in my previous blog (Willie and the Woods), I was referring to Willie, Meranda, and Parker. They get along fabulously and I am so thankful they have each other during the summer. They have been bowling, bike riding, swimming, and even to the SL Arts Festival. Cousin Peter has joined them on occasion -- but he now has a job! How great is that?!?!?!

Friday, June 27, 2008

Week at a glance . . .

Sunday -- yes, I know it's really the last day of the week, but for this post it's the first. We had dinner at Haley and James' and it was delicious! We enjoyed good company and watching Elliott play with Haley's left over Primary Activity Day props.
Monday -- to work and home. Willie and the Woods (a new and upcoming gang of Hunter hoodlems) organized their day together and ended up at Grandma's for swimming and fun in the sun.
Tuesday -- no work at the office --just at home. Carpet cleaning at Mom's (it looks awesome - my carpet cleaning person is the best); bid on a patio cover pergola for the back yard; invited to lunch (ABS) with the Stokers (sister Chris and nephews Alex and Peter) --Willie and the Woods and me; and a visit to see Grandma P (she has had the worst month ever and is now at Highland Care for care, recovery, and strength building). Haley was here for guitar and piano lessons. Willie and the Woods biked it to Grandma's for swimming and fun in the sun.


Wednesday -- to work (short day). Annie and Elliott and Willie and the Woods headed to Grandma's for swimming and fun in the sun. Grandma got her new furniture and with some help from a bunch of people -- we got the living room back together! It is absolutely beautiful! Wednesday evening Willie had his first public speaking engagement. He talked to Annie's cub scouts about sportsmanship at their Olympics pack meeting. He did a fantabulous job. He stood straight and tall, spoke clearly and precisely, involved the audience, and finished up with a challenge for the cubs to practice good sportsmanship - awesome! Elliott and I tagged along as spectators. Peter got a job!!!!!!!
Thursday -- to work (long day) while the disaster recovery team gave assistance to our family members in need. Then visiting teaching -- face to face visits with 5 of my 8 sisters. Willie and Karl went to the NBA draft that never was. Dragged Magna Main with the main men in my life.
Friday -- day off. Willie and the Woods plus Pierre (they've added a temp) -- and Haley are headed to the Arts Festival while I am home doing housework, yard work, and getting ready to head to Atlanta for the annual school counselor conference.

More to come, sometime!

Monday, June 23, 2008

Disneyland magic spreads to flower gardens --

Marigolds . . . Not sure what these are -- dahlias maybe . . .

Geraniums . . .


I am always amazed at the Disneyland gardens. This is a photo of some cosmos -- an old-fashioned flower. I have grown them off and on, but they usually end up mostly greenery stems. I couldn't pass up a chance to get a snapshot of this beautiful display.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Fast trip, fun trip, fantastic trip

We made it -- to Disneyland and back in a flash. Last week at this time, we were all frantically getting ready to head out on our summer vacation. We're home now and it's hard to believe we were actually there. We had a great time! Highlights -- too many to describe -- it will take me awhile. I know the kids loved the rides and the "fast passes" to short lines. I loved the visits to the beach before and after the days in Disneyland. I was so proud of my kids and kids-in-law and of course my little grandson. We all got along fabulously and enjoyed laughing and screaming and talking turns spoiling Elliott.


Monday, June 09, 2008

First official day of summer vacation . . .




Basketball camp at the U of U for Willie. It was very cool for me, the parent. Willie is the youngest of the older group this year (13 and older) -- he was oldest in the younger group last year. Coach Boylan does a great job. We were greeted by all the Ute b-ball players as we walked to the northeast doors of the Huntsman Center. Then came an energetic welcome by the coach himself. That was definitely a top notch grade for PR. The boys hustled to the floor to shoot some hoops before the official start at which time Boylan had all the boys (200+) under control, paying attention, and feeling good about being there within a matter of minutes. They followed the commands, tucked their shirts in, learned the importance of good people skills and more.

Word of the day: ENTHUSIASM -- "If you don't have it, get it!"

Phrase of the day: Learn to listen and listen to learn.

I can't wait for tomorrow! I only hang around for the first 15-20 minutes of camp, but that's time to give me enough positive energy to last a week.

I hope my comments aren't too obnoxious.

Four graduates -- 3 high school and one USU

Meranda graduated from Hunter High (she's going to SLCC); Maddie from USU; Natalie from Kearns High (she's going to the U of U); and Rubie from Cyprus High (she's going to BYU). Haley, Willie, and I attended two of the four commencement exercises. They were good. There's just something about a graduation that renews and rejuvenates.

Tuesday, June 03, 2008

It's what I am all about . . .

It's that time of year --you know, when school winds down and the transitions to what's next begin.

Some time ago, as part of my school service, I spent one day a week at the Young Parent Program (YPP) as the counselor. It was the goal of the school's administrator to increase graduation rates and assist students in owning their own education, graduating, and planning for their future (mom and child). I seemed a likely counselor to fill the order. It was clearly one of the more challenging experiences of my professional and personal life.

The program enrolls 95-105 young women -- some with children and some with children on the way. Although pregnant teens can attend their home high school, the YPP is sometimes more appealing because of it's child care component. The young girls can take their babies to class from weeks to 6 months and then early head start takes over from there.

I have been away from the school on a regular basis for a couple of years. But I am invited to their annual "graduation brunch" each year. It was today. There are 35 graduates this year -- a record! The graduation brunch program was awesome -- four graduates spoke about their struggles and successes and school. Their messages were awe-inspiring. The featured adult speaker was Judge Andy Valdez, and his remarks were awesome and very fitting. He shared his story of growing up in a single parent home and how his mother cleaned houses, worked in a bar, and did other odd jobs just to pay the bills and take care of her kids and made huge efforts to show them how important their education was to her. He challenged the girls to do the same -- that their own education and making sure their children were taken care of and educated was a top priority. He challenged them to stay away from prison -- visiting boyfriends and fathers of their children is no better than doing time themselves. He complimented the girls on the hope he saw in their eyes and encouraged them to keep it alive.

When I spent my time at the YPP -- I had a message on the white board in my little office there that I took from President Hinckley. It went something like -- "If we lose a young woman, we lose generations." I truly believe that a program like YP can help in saving young girls and we can only hope that its impact on their lives while there is lasting.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Happy Birthday Annie -- 30 and 13

Happy Birthday Annie --the age span of my children is now 30 and 13. Thank you for being such a great daughter, sister, grandaughter, mother, niece, cousin, . . .
We love you!

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Home at last . . .


Nephew Peter returned with honor (rwh) from the West Virginia Charleston LDS Mission. He served a great mission! He spent time in northern West Virginia and Central Virginia --- from Mannington (WV) to Roanoke (VA), from Clarksburg (WV) to Covington (V), and so on. He has grown and developed, and we have all been blessed by his service. It's so nice to have him home.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Elliott Day - - -



Annie has a week of meetings, and it was my turn to watch the boy today. I got to do the whole mothering experience -- breakfast, bath, play, snacks, field trip, lunch, nap (2 and 1/2 hours for both of us)! It was a cold and rainy day, but that didn't keep us from going outside. Elliott didn't like the rain or my umbrella, so we opted to play with tennis balls in the garage. I think the best part of the day for Elliott was when Willie got home from school. They are best buds! It's great being Elliott's grandma and Willie's mom!


Thursday, May 15, 2008

My lilac bushes are bee-u-tee-ful!

I don't know what it is about the lilacs (shape, color, scent), but they are just so awesome!

I hope they last a few weeks. I am so excited to get my yard in shape and it is just so much more pleasant when the lilacs are in bloom.

Lilacs remind me of an old fashioned garden. Aside from roses, there is no flower as beautiful and aromatic as lilacs. Of the two, lilacs have a stronger scent that carries quite a distance. Unfortunately, lilacs bloom for only a very brief couple weeks in the spring. Once the buds begin to open, I pray for a cool dry spell. Once the blooms are over, I still have a nice shade bush, but I have to wait for up to fifty more weeks to see them again.

History:
Lilacs in the United States date back to the mid 1750's. They were grown in America's first botanical gardens and were popular in New England. Both George Washington and Thomas Jefferson grew them in their gardens. Lilac bushes can live for hundreds of years, so a bush planted at that time may still be around. Lilacs originated from Europe and Asia, with the majority of natural varieties coming from Asia. In Europe, lilacs came from the Balkans, France and Turkey.

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

26 ft. 7 in.

Willie was in the Granite District Junior High Track meet today. He threw the shot put 26 ft. 7 in. -- the best throw ever! He also had to run in the 7th grade relay -- how about that! If you know my kids very well -- especially Willie -- you know he can be a little slow in the running department. However, I must say that he "ran like the wind" in the relay. It was definitely, absolutely, remarkably the fastest I have ever seen him run!

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Sunday Sentiments

  • My baby brother (36 years young) is in the hospital. He had knee surgery on Wednesday (torn ACL). He is the kind of person that no matter what happens to him, it always ends up worse than anyone else. The surgery was done in a surgical center in Provo late Wednesday afternoon. He and his wife got home close to midnight Wednesday evening. He's has had a terrible time -- the knee surgery is painful enough. He didn't do well with the pain medication (combined with anti-nausea meds); he had to arrange for his own physical therapy for Friday, and the PT he went to wouldn't touch his leg; luckily, a PT in his ward finally came to the rescue. He started getting congested on Friday and by Saturday he couldn't breathe without intense pain. In the middle of the night (Saturday-Sunday), he was vomiting blood, so the hospital was the next option. At first, it was thought he had a blood clot (maybe he did) but after some divine intervention no blood clot -- he has a serious case of pneumonia -- hospital time for the next three days. Needless to say, he's a basket case (as is the rest of his immediate and extended family).

  • Niece Madeline graduated from USU on Saturday -- journalism and communications -- she has an internship with the D-News (Mormon Times) for the summer.

  • Niece Melinda and her family were at her mom's for the weekend to celebrate birthdays of her two little ones (Rilee {4} and Conner {1}.

  • My little grandson is struggling to cut his 15th tooth. That is just seven too many teeth for a 15 month old. He has been miserable. We spent some time with him yesterday and he tries so hard to be happy, but the painful mouth just gets in the way.

  • Haley and James are in Idaho Falls -- new baby on James' side of the family. Haley has made a decision to teach in Murray School District next school year.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Parent Failure?

Willie had a track meet yesterday afternoon (Wednesday), 3:00 p.m., at Skyline. Karl and I both planned to attend I got delayed in a meeting and I felt assured that Karl would be at the meet to support Willie. Karl, however, at the same time was pressed to get some last minute shipping out the door and just knew that I would be there for the boy. At 4:30 p.m., we realized that neither one of us had made it too the track meet. Rats! Needless to say, we both felt like we had let Willie down.

His bus rolled into the Hunter Junior High parking lot around 5:15, and Karl was there to pick him up. He was okay about our lack of support. (What a great kid!) He also told us that the meet was cut short because a girl (runner) from another school passed out, and an ambulance was called.

I just don't like parent failure!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Brace yourself!

Willie and I had dentist appointments yesterday (Monday). The dentist always presents the good news and then the bad news -- never fails. Good news: Willie came away with no cavities. That's a perfect record for the teeth currently in his mouth. Bad news: His teeth need the braces. After x-rays and cleaning, the dentist and Willie left the office and headed down the hall in the same building to visit the ortho-dentist. Willie is proposing that we don't start the braces until after Disneyland. (Yes, it's official -- we are going to Dizzyland, June 13-17.)

Monday, April 21, 2008

The scent of a 13 year-old . . .

It's in the bedroom, through the family room, in the car, near the kitchen, on the couch, down the hall, (no, this is not an exercise in prepositional phrases), it's everywhere! What is it you ask? The scent of a 13 year-old, the one who lives in my house. Can't describe it. Don't want to remember it. It's fueled by food, drink, and air. It comes at times when you least suspect it. It's essence is one of denial. Ah! The scent of a 13 year-old!

Saturday, April 19, 2008

It's Annie and Ross + Elliott

Annie and Ross (+Elliott) are celebrating their 5th anniversary today -- very nice.

5th Anniversary Gemstone: Sapphire, or pink tourmaline.

5th Anniversary Color: Several colors are associated with the 5th anniversary: blue, pink, or tourquoise.
5th Anniversary Flower: Daisy -- in the language of flowers, daisies represent innocence, loyal love, I'll never tell, and purity.

Ways to Celebrate Your 5th Anniversary:
Plant a tree together. You can plant one in your yard, or at a park, school, or church.
An oak tree represents solidity.
A pine tree represents the evergreen character of your love for one another.
A flaming red maple represents the flaming passion you have for each other.
A flowering crab tree represents love eternal.
Toast one another with hope that your love continues to grow and prosper like the trees around you.
Purchase tickets to a show, movie, sports event, concert, theatre, etc., to attend together.

Gift Suggestions to Purchase for Your 5th Anniversary:
Purchase a framed share of stock in a major company that has meaning to the both of you.
Wooden baskets.
Shaker boxes.
Magazine subscription.
Wooden jigsaw puzzle.
Wooden paper weight.
Bookends.
Art print of trees.
Wooden name plate.
Wooden salad set.
Wooden wine rack.
Fireplace kindling.
Silverware.
Wood sculpture or carvings.
Wood shelving.
Wood curio cabinet.
Willow twig furniture.
Small wood folding tables.
Croquet set.
Wooden quilt rack.
Ping pong table.
Wicker furniture.
Bentwood rocker.

Gift Suggestions to Make for Your 5th Anniversary:
Stuff a wooden box with a love note, book on romance, love coupons, picture of the two of you, etc.
Remodel your closet so it is cedar-lined.
Put together a road map describing a trip to take together where there are forests.

After reading this, I am sure you are looking forward to your 6th!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Fern Elizabeth Jones Eccles -- Born, April 16, 1905


If Grandma Eccles were still alive she would be 103! She died sadly at age 58 of cancer. Some say it was lung cancer -- but I really believe the cancer was just about everywhere in her body.

Grandma Eccles had auburn red hair and freckles, everywhere. Some areas of her arms were like splotches of suntanned skin -- the freckles were so dense. Grandma had a beautiful soprano voice, I loved to sit by her in church and listen to her sing. She also played the piano. Gardening was one of her hobbies as were sewing and cooking. Her fridge was always supplied with a wide variety of Nehi flavored sodas, RC Cola, and other goodies. She always had a cake on the counter -- mostly applesauce cake. Her home at 543 Kensington Ave., was neat and clean with everything in its place. Grandma like to watch "What's My Line" on Sunday nights. If we were lucky, we timed our visitng about the time that show came on television. Her house had a screened front porch. On summer nights we would sit out there and eat grapes (I don't know why I remember that), protected from the mosquitos. I think she liked green and pink -- dominant colors in her house and in her clothes. Just before she died, she and Grandpa bought a pink Oldsmobile. Grandma Eccles was tall for her generation -- about 5'8"-5'9". She always seemed to be dressed up and ready to go somewhere. Even working out in her yard, she wore a dress. In a cabinet next to the kitchen, Grandma kept a collection of miniature glass dishes. She never hesitated to let us get them out and play "tea party" with them.

I was 9 years old when Grandma died. It was early in the morning May 8, 1964. I was laying in bed waiting for my turn to get up and get ready for school (3rd grade). Mom had gone to take Jackie to school (5th and 6th graders were on double sessions at Webster Elementary, and they started at 7:00 a.m. or so.) I heard the phone ring, Dad answered it, and by the tone in his voice I knew it wasn't good news. I stayed in my bed and listened to Dad share the sad news with Mom (when she got back home) that Grandma had died. It was so sad . . . Mom sobbed, and so did I. I lay in bed wishing it wasn't true.

My Grandma Eccles was only in my life for a short time, but in that time I knew she loved me and all of the grandkids. I knew she loved Mom, too. She didn't have much to offer through earthly possessions, but she had a beautiful loving spirit about her that made her very special. She would be so very proud of her great posterity -- especially the number of redheads in the family!

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Another Sunday -----

I look forward to Sunday afternoon. Sunday is really the only day I take time to plan and prepare a nice dinner. There is always so much going on during the week, that my last priority ends up being "what's for dinner?" Needless to say, Karl and Willie are attended to and they don't look like they go without, it's just that planning and preparing dinner require energy, and energy, and more energy. Most late afternoons when I get home from the D.O., I am more interested in talking to the men in my house and listening to their experiences of the day than I am in preparing a meal.

So, back to Sunday . . . not only do I enjoy planning and preparing a nice dinner, but I also look forward to having family here with the three of us. Karl's mom usually joins us along with Annie, Ross, Elliott, Haley and James. It is the best part of every week. Although the food is fantastic, it pales in comparison to the entertainment . . . E L L I O T T! He is growing so fast and what a joy he is! We all just sit and watch him go about the house. It's great fun for all of us!

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

Happy Birthday -- Haley Quinn

Happy Birthday, Haley!
What a great daughter, sister, aunt, wife, granddaughter, niece, . . . you are!
Have a great day!
We all love you very much and are so very thankful for you!

Monday, April 07, 2008

Son and Grandson


Sunday, April 06, 2008

Parents

Jerry and Ed

Siblings

Ed, John, Jackie, Judy, Cindy, Chris, Geneil, Dee

Saturday, April 05, 2008

Guitar Hero ---

We had an impromptu "Guitar Hero" competition tonight. I am sad to report that Mernada, Willie, Parker, and Karl are all better than me. (Sniff, sniff . . .) I am just not good at video games.

Missionaries Serve in Hunter, too . . .


It's just about time to call it a day -- and a good day it's been. I keep forgetting to blog about the missionaries coming to dinner a few weeks ago. We have a three-some in our stake and they are nice young men. When they called to confirm their dinner appointment, I asked what they'd like to eat. Elder Houston Texas requested vegetables -- corn, peas, green beans, etc. I asked if he'd like any meat and potatoes and he said that chicken would be good. I always try to take a picture each time we have the elders in our home.


Thursday, April 03, 2008

Tabernacle

Wednesday night I ventured downtown to the Tabernacle on Temple Square with the stake RS ladies for the annual auxiliary orientation for presidencies (connected to General Conference). It was my first time in the Tabernacle since its renovation and re-dedication. It looked and smelled crisp and clean, the benches are wider in the seat and spaced to add more leg-room. As I sat through the orientation (which was absolutely excellent), I couldn't help but remember some of the times I "sat" through something there.

  • Dad took Jackie and me to a Sunday afternoon session of General Conference when we were around 8 and 10 years old.
  • Concert choir participation as a junior and senior in high school meant a performance in the Tabernacle on Veteran's Day and for the "Lights On Festival" the Friday after Thanksgiving.

  • I attended a Veteran's Day concert there for extra credit for some class at the "U" -- Dad went with me. We sat on the front row of the back section and President Kimball walked right past us to his seat. I remember thinking how tiny he was.

  • Music 101 at the "U" meant attending Utah Symphony concerts at the Tabernacle -- an entire season.

  • I remember seeing a performance of the Messiah there.

  • When Utah reached the 100th year of statehood, January 4, 1996, nephew Peter sang in a special choir that performed as part of celebration. I wiggled my way into the balcony of the Tabernacle and enjoyed a pretty memorable celebration.

  • One of my former visiting teaching ladies (Lynn Beach), who works for the Utah Opera Company, gave us some special passes for a Mormon Battalion celebration a few years back -- held at the Tabernacle.

  • Niece Hannah is a member of the International Children's Choir, and we attended their Christmas concert at the Tabernacle two years ago.

The Tabernacle is an awesome structure -- I remember seeing an old photo of its roof with a huge arrow and the words AIRPORT painted on it. I guess the message let planes know they were close.











Tuesday, April 01, 2008

Citizenship in the Community

For four weeks now, Karl and I have been working with Willie's scout troop on the Citizenship in the Community Merit Badge. It's actually been kind of fun. We have completed just about all of the requirements, culminating tonight by attending a West Valley City Community Council Meeting. It was a good meeting. The meeting opened with a movie -- a Pixar cartoon, For the Birds -- it was a nice way for the meeting to begin and capture the scouts' attention. I guess they (WVC Council) do an "opening" instead of a "reverence" as in most public meetings. Then the public comment issues included a request for ongoing consideration of a skate park; efforts by young people to clean up graffiti; and where to locate a new animal shelter. We also learned of plans to revitalize the area surrounding the Valley Fair (ghetto) Mall. Plans are in place to build an Olive Garden and TGI Fridays where the tire store once stood on the corner of 2700 West andf 3500 South. That information was encouraging -- but we miss Francesco's. All in all the merit badge process has been good. The boys have been well-behaved and interested. We have learned a lot and also had some fun.

My son is growing up . . .

I am behind on my bloggings, sorry. On Easter Sunday, Willie decided to wear his sports coat from Haley's wedding (a year ago). It was a little tight, but it worked for a three-hour block of church meetings. He looked so grown up.

Spring on Saturday, Winter on Sunday and Monday


It was cold on Saturday but not cold enough to keep the daffodils from opening up. It's difficult for the first flowers of the season to break through the hard cold ground and enjoy only a few hours of warmth before they're burried by inches of snow from a fast moving summer storm.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter

It's Easter Sunday -- the earliest I can remember. It's also the first weekend of spring. The pansies survived the winter, the tulips and daffodils are poking their leaves through the cold soil.

Willie and I have had a few days for spring break which has meant sleeping in, eating out, and just chilling. It's been nice . . .

March madness continues -- b-ball style that is --- and guess what, one of my bracket sheets is in first place in the Petersen household. I can't believe it! I really know nothing about the records, seeding, and all that stuff.

Sunday Dinner --
honey baked ham and yummy potatoes
asparagus and pineapple-lemon fruit salad
veggies and dip
hot rolls and honey butter
dessert -- to be announced
Have a nice day!

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Happy Anniversary, Mom and Dad -- 57 Years


Fifty-seven years ago today, March 19, 1951, my parents were married in the Salt Lake Temple. Then Elder Harold B. Lee (a good friend of the family) officiated. Dad was just about to graduate in mechanical/civil engineering from the University of Utah, and Mom was working full time as an administrative secretary for Salt Lake Knitting. They had a nice reception at the Yale Ward and then they were off to Las Vegas for a short honeymoon. It was spring break at the "U" so that meant back to school when the honeymoon ended. A few months later, Dad was drafted and reported to Fort Lewis, Washington for basic training and then Fort Ord, California for additional training. Fortunately, Dad was assigned stateside for his tour of duty in the military, and Mom was able to join him at Fort Monmouth, New Jersey. I think the years in New Jersey were some of the best -- time together, away from family, totally on their own. Neither Mom nor Dad hesitate to share their New Jersey experiences.

My parents have had a good, strong marriage largely celebrated by hard work, church and community service, their eight children and their spouses, grandchildren and their spouses, and great-grandchildren. (Mom would argue that all of her grandchildren are "great-grandchildren.") In my fifty plus years, I have never heard Dad make an unkind or curse remark or comment to Mom. However, on occasion Mom has set Dad straight on a few issues, but nothing serious -- that's just the way she is. They are awesome examples to all of us -- I think we number fifty now.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

An end to a great season . . .

The 07-08 "Wolverine" b-ball season came to an end last night. They lost to a pretty mediocre team 20-18. It was the lowest scoring game of the season. Sometimes the stars just line up for the other team.

Willie's had a great season. He is a tough and very consistent player. Now it's time for practicing b-ball outside with the neighborhood team and getting ready for basketball camp, scout hikes and bike rides, summer swimming, scout camps, and then football. Next year's b-ball season will be here before we know it, and hopefully it will include some time on the junior high team.

Willie is a great kid -- he is also very smart. He has yet to get any grade lower than an "A" and his citizenship is top notch. My only complaint about this kid of mine is that he is a picky eater. Oh well ---

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Washington, DC Temple on TV


Here I am watching the news on FOX-DC and the weather comes on. The weather person remarks on the beautiful March evening we are having and points out the beauty of the "Mormon" Temple view from the beltway. How about that!

In the Nation's Capital --

I am in Washington, DC for an education -focused national policy seminar. This is the sixth time I have attended this seminar in the past eight years. It's always a very rewarding and positive experience. I am with 10 or so educators from Utah. The seminar format is basically the same each year, however the topics and issues are dynamic (to say the least). Where this is a Presidential election year, Congress is currently waiting around for new leadership before key education issues like "No Child Left Behind" and "Perkins Funding" are resolved. So, in the meantime, our role at the policy seminar was not as critical this year as in the past.

Our group met yesterday (Monday) afternoon with Dr. Troy Justesen, "The" Assistant Secretary of Education (Office of Vocational and Adult Education). We had an excellent discussion with him about the status of education in Utah and what's on the horizon for CTE (Career and Technical Education) nationwide. Today (Tuesday) was our day on Capitol Hill. We met with Rep. Jim Matheson and Sen. Bob Bennett this morning and then met with staffers for Rep. Chris Cannon and Sen. Orin Hatch this afternoon. Sen. Hatch had planned to meet with us however, he was called out to an emergency "intelligence committee" meeting and did not return. Watching the news later this evening -- it was reported that a key military intelligence officer stepped down this afternoon, so I guess that's where Hatch was. I opted out of a meeting with Rep. Bishop this year. He is much too arrogant and obnoxious for me.

So, what did we have to say in these meetings -- basically we thanked each congressional office for their support for Career and Technical Education for Utah. Each year our State Office of Education gets about $15.0 million from the Federal Government just for this area of education. It may not seem like a lot for a state-wide program of services, but it goes a long way in serving students. In addition, we focused our discussions on the importance of CTE funding for the future and the importance CTE has for the economy overall in Utah. Utah now ranks 24th in the number of college graduates among adult workers --- most workers have technical certification or less than a bachelor's degree to meet the high demand for skilled workers in Utah. Such training is supported in part by Federal funds.

So, that's my political science sharing for the day. This was the first year for me to visit the folks at the US Department of Education. Our group was given some sound advice by the folks there on how to go about getting specific "school counseling and guidance" language into Federal law. We'll see what happens in the years ahead.

Washington, DC is one of my all time favorite places to visit. Usually, I have a family member with me -- maybe next time.
(P.S. I saw Sen. Ted Kennedy from a short distance. He was in a committee hearing we peeked at from a hallway in the Dirksen Building. Also, Mayor Ralph Becker was in Rep. Cannon's office at the same time we were. He got in to see Cannon, we didn't. I did get a chance to talk with the Mayor for a few minutes.)

Saturday, March 08, 2008

March 9, 2008 Happy Anniversary Haley and James


I can't believe it's been a year since Haley and James' wedding. It was a great day! You have accomplished a lot in your first year and we are all very proud of you both!

Monday, March 03, 2008

Family --

I am taking a few risks with this blog post--
Not sure why --
Here it goes --

I am so thankful for my family . . .
I love each one individually for the joy and happiness
they send my way. I could go on and on about my feelings and thoughts for each one -- but instead, just a few words to point out some of their unique characteristics (intended only to copmpliment):

Karl -- good dad and husband, faithful and down to earth, never uses foul language, valiant in the Church -- family-minded
Annie -- Elliott's mother, Ross' wife, capable and competent, artistic and sophisticated -- politically-minded
Haley -- James' wife, efficient and perceptive, musical and intellectual -- service-minded
Willie -- fine young man, insightful and sensitive, skilled and determined -- sports-minded,
Ross -- Elliott's dad, Annie's husband, articulate and enthusiastic, enterprising and bold -- information-minded
James -- Haley's husband, precise and dedicated, courageous and resourceful -- education-minded
Elliott --
my grandson, curious and cautious, charming and adorable -- ???

I could easily interchange or vary the names and characteristics -- feel free to add to or delete from --

Thursday, February 28, 2008

I stand somewhat corrected!

As Willie and I drove into the junior high parking lot this morning, we carefully checked and read all signs. One sign, on the right side of the parking lot entrance, states, "This parking lot is NOT a student drop off." Please note that the sign is bent and twisted and not obviously visible. I guess I will need to reconsider my thoughts from yesterday. However, there is no sign that indicates, "If you come in this parking lot, a mean teacher will harass you and scold you!"

I stand somewhat corrected!

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Have a nice day!

For the past couple of weeks Willie and I have been exposed to the "mean and nasty teachers" at the junior high school. I choose to drop Willie off in the faculty parking lot where the parents who just need to make a quick drop off tend to go. (Parents needing to linger longer in the parking lot and watch their students socialize and then walk into the school, drop their students off in the east lot.) There are a couple of signs in the faculty lot that say, "Faculty Lot," "Student Drop Off East Parking Lot," -- but there is no sign that says what the mean teachers want it to say, "Parents are not allowed to drop their students off in this parking lot, and if they do they will be yelled at by us!" An explanation -- when we arrive in the morning at the same time as any one of these 3 mean teachers (they have all pointed at me and then pointed to the east parking lot like I am suppose to feel bad about what I am doing). Teacher A must be arriving at school earlier -- we haven't been reprimanded by her for quite some time. But Teacher B is determined to set me straight, and the anger has not stopped with me (the parent), now Willie is getting harassed. Teacher B has scolded him twice now as he is walking in the school --"tell your mother she needs to drop you off in the other parking lot!" This morning was even more exciting, Teacher C, left her parked car and aggressively approached the driver of each car dropping off students and shook her hand at them in disgust. One parent just drove right by her and two parents actually rolled down their windows and engaged her. Guess what, I was one of the lucky recipients of her angst, and I refused to roll my window down for her, and all I could do in response was mouth a nice message to her, "Have a nice day!"

My greatest concern is that these 3 angry teachers, A, B, and C, go into the school to teach our students. You can't tell me that they magically transition into kind and loving teachers when they enter the classroom. I doubt their attitudes are left in the parking lot. My, my, my, . . . I hope they can soon find a cause that is more rewarding than scolding parents and kids who enter the faculty parking lot for school. I hope they can find a way to "have a nice day".

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Curses, foiled again!


The Utes are getting better and better. The shots are there, the defense is tight, the coach is intense and a little crazy, and the games are close! The game tonight was a battle until the end and the Cougs came out on top! Curses, foiled again, but not for long. The Utah b-ball program is turning around, and it looks good, and I love it. The b-ball game is my favorite -- always has been, always will be!

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Oh what condition my condition is in . . .


I am a little slow posting about the Utah High School 5A State Swim Meet. It was held last Saturday, February 9, at BYU. My kids and I have been attending for 7-8 years to watch the very capable nieces and nephew compete as the top swimmers in the state. Each year the meet is held at BYU, and I have to chuckle at all of the rules and conditions spectators face as they participate. The most obnoxious is the 1 by 2 and 1/2 inch piece of paper ticket-holders receive as they enter the swimming pool venue. I am so surprised that BYU management feels so compelled to instruct and in the first person, no less. It's like taking the "creed of conditions", hmmmmm . . . .

Friday, February 15, 2008

I think I am losing my mind . . . .


I know the mind deteriorates with age -- but, I am not that old --

But, every day something happens that leads me to believe I am losing my mind. I forget meetings, I can't remember from one hour to the next (even from one minute to the next) what I am doing or suppose to be doing. I can't seem to get a handle on things and it's kind of scary. I have always had a very good memory -- names, dates, places, events, and so on.

Is it dementia? Not sure -- I couldn't remember how to spell it to find the information below. You be the judge ---

Dementia (from Latin de- "apart, away" + mens (genitive mentis) "mind") is the progressive decline in cognitive function due to damage or disease in the brain beyond what might be expected from normal aging. Although dementia is far more common in the geriatric population, it may occur in any stage of adulthood. This age cutoff is by definition, as similar sets of symptoms due to organic brain dysfunction are given different names, such as developmental disorders, in populations younger than adulthood.

In dementia, affected areas in cognition may be memory, attention, language, and problem solving. Especially in the later stages of the condition, affected persons may be disoriented in time (not knowing what day of the week, day of the month, month, or even what year it is), in place (not knowing where they are), and in person (not knowing who they are).

Maybe I am not quite there -- I do know who I am and I know where I am . . . at least for today!

Saturday, February 02, 2008

A few thoughts . . .

President Hinckley -- his impact will last forever . . .
It seems that everyone is posting something on their blogs about President Hinckley. I have enjoyed reading the postings.

The funeral service today was very powerful and tender. I was very impressed that all five Hinckley children participated -- youngest daughter, Jane, offered the family prayer; son, Clark offered the opening prayer; middle daughter, Virginia, was the first speaker; oldest daughter, Kathy, offered the closing prayer; and, oldest son, Richard, dedicated the grave. In the first few rows of the conference center were those five children and their spouses, twenty-five grandchildren and their spouses, and sixty-two great-grandchildren. I never met President Hinckley, but I have met his daughter,Virginia, and his son, Richard. They are good people. The Hinckley family is a strong family -- the plan of salvation in action.

I enjoyed Elder Packer's comments as he referenced President Hinckley's October 2004 conference talk -- "The Women in Our Lives". This talk came six months after Sister Hinckley passed away. It was a nice tribute to Sister Hinckley and his daughters. The quote Elder Packer used was one I clearly remember.

As a father, do I love my daughters less than I love my sons? No. If I am guilty of any imbalance, it is in favor of my girls. I have said that when a man gets old he had better have daughters about him. They are so kind and good and thoughtful. I think I can say that my sons are able and wise. My daughters are clever and kind. And "my cup runneth over" (Psalm 23:5) because of this.

Women are such a necessary part of the plan of happiness which our Heavenly Father has outlined for us. That plan cannot operate without them.


I hope I can be the kind of daughter (and mother and wife) to which President Hinckley so clearly referred in so many of his talks and writings.

Friday, February 01, 2008

Extra effort ----


Many of the issues and problems students and families bring to schools could easily be resolved if the folks at the schools would make a little, tiny, minimal, extra effort. Take for example a parent I met with this morning. Her son is a junior student in one of our high schools, a good student. He really wants to take occupational drafting and pre-architecture classes, and his high school doesn't offer them.

I actually got a call from this mother about the whole dilemma on Wednesday this week. I told her I would call the counselor, have her talk with the student to see if going to another high school for just those classes would fit into his schedule. The counselor responded by telling me that she had already given the student the other high school's telephone number and told him to call the school -- slacker indicator number #1. The counselor has the primary responsibility to help create the best schedule possible for every student in her caseload even if that means making arrangements with another school for a few classes. I decided to turn the conversation into a teaching moment, I strongly suggested that she call the school for the student and make the arrangements for him.

So, this morning the mother came to me indicating that she wanted to take her son out of the unhelpful school and special permit him to the school that had the drafting classes. She had received no help at the school (even after my call to the counselor, she didn't make the extra effort for the student) and felt like the school did not want to help her son. I made a few calls (like the counselor could have) and made arrangements for the mother to meet with the new school's assistant principal for a special attendance permit.

The mother was so appreciative. She then proceded to tell me the rest of the story ---
She and her husband moved to the US from Central America eighteen years ago. Her husband had a good job, they had a nice home, everything was great until the homeland security/INS folks tracked him down for being here illegally. They had paid an attorney many years ago to get their "paperwork" in order. They have social security numbers and work cards, but for some reason the "attorney" took advantage of their naivite and abscounded with the money for her husband's legal status process. So, eighteen months ago, he was deported. She lost their house and pretty much everything else and is now living in a basement apartment. She and her son (only child) miss their hunband/dad like crazy. She was just so appreciative that someone was willing to help her out. Tears trickled down her face as she thanked me.

No sure what is going to happen, but I am so glad I gave a little extra to her this morning. Helping others and being kind about it is really a good thing to do.

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Snow Day?


It's snowing pretty fiercely and the roads are getting icy. Will that mean a "snow day" tomorrow? It's something all kids (and teachers) in Utah dream of --


Happy Snow Day
by Judy Domeny Bowen (a teacher)

It is snowing white and heavy
And my heart is gay and light
And I know I will sleep soundly
For a snow day is in sight.
Snow is piled upon the bushes,
It is layered in the trees,
And Ted, the weather caster, said
It might drift to our knees.

Happy snow day! Pop the popcorn,
Gonna watch late night TV.
And I just might bake some cookies,
For tomorrow I will sleep.
Yes, tomorrow I'll grade papers,
You never know might clean the house
Happy snow day! Happy snow day!
Gonna sing and dance and shout!

Two A.M. the movie's over,
Guess I'd better go turn in.
It was so fun to watch a mystery
'Stead of grading late again.
Take a look outside the window,
Yeah, the snow's still coming down.
Not so heavy, not to worry,
Nicely covering the ground.

Happy snow day! Oh the leisure
And the simple peace of mind,
Knowing that tomorrow morning
I will face a day that's mine.
It's a gift so unexpected,
A vacation that's unplanned.
Happy snow day! Happy snow day!
There is joy throughout the land!

What! It's seven in the morning!
Where is that awaited call?
Spring out of my sleep-warm bed
And to the radio I crawl.
Turn it on and listen closely,
Oh the wait's so very cruel!
Then they list off every town around,
'Cept mine -- we're having school!

NOT a snow day! I'm in trouble!
I have 30 minutes now
Till my students fill the classroom!
I run panicked though the house.
There is no time for a shower,
Throw on wrinkled shirt and jeans,
Frantic race out to the Chevy,
Hair and face not even clean!

NOT a snow day! NOT a snow day!
What a way to start the morn!
Let us hope that come this evening
Blows a blizzard of a storm!