Monday, February 15, 2010

Opinions . . .


  • With all the talk about Jordan School District's multi-million dollar deficit, I can't help but wonder why district's don't trim the excess at the top. The big district superintendents in the Salt Lake area make upwards of six times as much as a new teacher. It seems to me that making cuts in the administrative level could save six teachers' jobs or maybe seven or eight classified staff. Not sure how superintendents arrived at such a high level of entitlement. Hmmm . . . And, after nearly 32 years working in education, I am not sure what a superintendent does that impacts the day to day operation of a school. For the most part they [superintendents] are nice people who have climbed to the top through hard work in the field, but I am not sure their work is worth so much more than our classroom teachers.

  • The opening ceremony for the Vancouver Olympics was little more than boring. It was a mix of mixed up stuff -- from native dancers to orca whales to flying snowboarders to opera singers to river-type tap dancers to . . . . The one and only bright spot was the parade of the countries -- a fashion show really, the outfits were quite interesting.

  • Education is knowledge and power and worth the effort at any point in your life. I ran into a former neighbor/friend this afternoon. She is my age and just finished a bachelor's degree in accounting. She indicated that she is thinking of continuing on with school to complete a master's in business (MBA). Karl is currently working on another degree this year -- nearly thirty years after completing a bachelor's degree. And, Lee Ann, my sister-in-law is back in school this year finishing a bachelor's degree. No matter the age, education is something that can never, never be taken from you and is an invaluable asset. Way to go to all who are taking classes, studying hard, and acquiring new and up-to-date marketable skills.

  • Take care of what you have! As I look out my kitchen window I can see the backyards of three neighboring houses. Each has a trampoline and all of them were purchased about the same time -- 2 or 3 years ago. Two of the 3 are in the best of shape complete with their original safety nets. One, however, is a complete worn out mess. The safety net is long gone -- actually it is torn to shreds. The bars are bent, and it is no longer a nice backyard toy but a big safety hazard. The shape of this neighbor's trampoline in pretty indicative of their entire yard (old tires all over the north side of the house and other junk scattered around the yard) and also creeps into their house -- another big mess. I am not sure that the people who live there value much of anything. So sad -- In my opinion, the better care you give to anything, the longer it lasts.

  • Money is overrated -- yes you need it to survive and thrive in the world -- but it's all relative. The NBA ALL-Star Game was on TV last night. The glitz and bling of the rich and famous of the NBA were all about the 100,000 plus seat Dallas Cowboy Stadium. The fans (whose seats were miles from the court) paid big money to watch the game on a basketball-sized jumbo screen. But the fans are not the point of my opinion (I digressed). In my present older and much wiser state, I am not nearly as impressed by nor need to be supported by as much of the dollar as I once thought important. After all, money is for stuff and once you (speaking for the greater public) figure out basic needs and have those met by what money you have, all of the extra money you have just goes to stuff and believe me we (speaking again for me and the greater public) have more stuff than we really need or will ever use. Karl finished painting before Christmas. He boxed up a bunch of stuff (roosters, greenery, . . . ) from the top of my kitchen cabinets in October/November and put them in boxes now stored in the garage. Guess what, they are still there, I am not sure I will put the stuff in the boxes on top of the cabinets, ever. Actually, when I look through my house, I can see a lot of stuff (maybe junk) I don't need nor want. Sometimes I feel like I am going to be taken over by all the stuff in my house. I have a goal this year to go through and de-stuff my house. I now think twice and thrice about money spent on stuff -- I save any extra money instead for something I may need in the future or someplace I would like to take my family. Karl has always been a saver and what has taken years to save is making life very comfortable for our family today.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Group Projects

My kids have been in the public school system off and on for many years -- too many to track. Every year there is a "group project" or two. No matter the class, the topic, the project, my kids get stuck with the responsibility. Willie and three kids in his "group project" have been hanging out at our house "working" on the project. After three long hours this afternoon/evening -- Willie and I were the only ones left standing, trying to work through putting the pieces of the so-called "group project" in order. The other kids just left -- I shooed them away -- we had other things to do -- like eat dinner. Most of the time, Willie was working on the project while the other "group members" were checking out YouTube videos. Arrggggg!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Week in review --

My mom hasn't been feeling well since Christmas. I attributed her low energy and general sense of not feeling well to Christmas and general holiday preparations. She planned for months getting gifts for 53 people -- it's her annual late summer/fall daily activity. (She's a catalog shopper extraordinaire!)

Since January 7, Mom has spent time at the LDS Hospital ER, followed up with a couple of doctor's appointments, and by Wednesday (last week) she was too weak to do much of anything. She and Dad got ready for a noon doctor's appointment, and Mom couldn't make it walking to the truck. Dad wheeled her to the passenger door and realized he needed help getting her into the truck. Liz came to the rescue, but by the time she and Dad got Mom into the passenger seat of the truck, she had passed out and began convulsing. A desperate call to 911 lead to a brief stay at Pioneer Valley Hospital and then an ambulance transfer to IMC. After several days in the hospital, Mom came home late Sunday afternoon much better off than when she left but not in the best of shape.

Mom's health issues are all interconnected and very complicated and difficult to describe if you are not in the medical profession. But, here it goes: bad lungs because of years of scar tissue build-up largely due pulmonary fibrosis and aspiration because of her pretty severe hiatal hernia; bad heart because of years of unattended high blood pressure; even more damage to the heart because it doesn’t get enough air from the bad lungs to work properly; water retention because Mom's bad heart can’t work hard enough to get rid of excess bodily fluid; severe leg and foot pain because the excess fluid in her feet and legs puts pressure on her already sore and painful neuropothy there; no energy because of bad lungs, bad heart, sore feet and legs, and a lot of pain. But, as Mom made it clear to the ER doctors, “I’m not dead, yet!”

She's home now with a few new medications, increased oxygen with a new reservoir nasal cannula, a lung capacity tester, a heart monitor (for two weeks), a finger oximeter, and a bunch of new instructions ------

She's lost close to 50 pounds in a year, and you wouldn't recognize her if you haven't seen her in that time. I (we) pray that she feels a little better each day and that she can build her strength and capacity to maintain quality in her life -- she's determined she can do it (but not without support and help from the whole family -- especially Dad).

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Basketball - I've got to love it!

It's Saturday morning. The doorbell rings at 9:15 a.m. It's Allen, Willie's friend from across the street. He's ready to head to the Stake Center with Willie and Karl for a basketball game. At 11:45 a.m., Haley picked me up and we headed to the grandparent's home for our Saturday routine. Only a brief sign of the boys in my family - from playing basketball. A little before 2:00 p.m., Haley and I left the grandparents, picked up James from home, and headed to Hunter High to the wolverines JR JAZZ basketball game. We got home from the game at 3:30 p.m. or so. Annie called and needed someone to hang out with and go with her to do some shopping for Elliott's birthday (Elliott wants a BIG basketball court, not a play one). Willie volunteered, but not without catching some of a basketball game on TV. (Elliott was with his Howden grandparnets at the BYU basketball game, and Ross was home with Wyatt watching football - go figure.) After a nice trip to the ghetto mall, a bite to eat, and grocery shopping, we were finally home for the remainder of the evening to watch basketball. The Utah game was delayed on TV --we had to watch UCF and Tulsa finish up -- who cares about them. We went back and forth, from channel to channel, watching San Diego and TCU, the JAZZ, and finally Utah. The day ended with a win for the Utes basketball team over UNLV and a win for the JAZZ over Milwaukee (Andrew Boget's team).

Basketball -- I've got to love it!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Hmmm, what to write . . . .

Tuesday began with (you guessed it) another meeting. This meeting featured a guest teacher who shared effective teaching strategies and practices. We all know that teachers who are engaged and excited about their work are somehow magically able to motivate and engage most students. It was a very good meeting, and I walked away with some good stuff.

The meeting wrap-up was the best part for me. The guest teacher shared a two-minute snap shot rendition of Dr. Martin Luther King's I Have a Dream speech. He was so believable! He said he had practiced for hours with a DVD of Dr. King's speech to perfect his performance and decided to start sharing it with his students a few years back. It's kind of his personal way of sharing his deep-seeded feelings to and connections with Dr. King as the Monday holiday approaches. He told us how as a young college student at USU, Corretta Scott King made a visit to Logan for a speaking engagement and that he was assigned by the university to drive to the SLC airport to pick her up and take her to Logan. Obviously, that is something he will never, never forget. Mrs. King's advice to him as they parted was "be the best teacher possible." He told all in the meeting how those words have resonated throughout his career.

I love that speech! I was in elementary school when the speech was given at Lincoln Memorial. I distinctly remember something about it, but it wasn't until I was in junior high that I saw a film of Dr. King's speech at a church youth fireside. One of the members of our ward's bishopric was the school district's library/media director (Don Hess). When new movies came to the school district, he tried them out on the youth in our ward. I remember the I Have a Dream film/documentary like it was yesterday.

My favorite line in the speech -- "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character."

Monday, January 04, 2010

Braces Off!

It was a big day for Willie -- braces off! The pearly whites are free from position-altering metal devices. No more stressful visits to the orthodontist where the most pressing decision to make was always the color of the rubber bands (red and white, red and black, green and yellow, all red, . . .). We go back tomorrow for the retainer and a photo shoot with Dr. Stevens, and then it's an every six months check-up for awhile. Whew! Another phase of blissful adolescence goes to the family history memory vault.


Friday, January 01, 2010

Happy New Year!

01-01-10
A day to remember? Not so sure, but it's been a good day just chillin' . . . I read through the entire January issue of National Geographic, watched a lot of television -- the Rose Parade, football, a little flashback basketball, more football, The Office, and more . . .


Wille turned 15 on Wednesday (Happy Birthday, boy!). I think it was a great day for him -- breakfast from McDonalds, lunch @ Chick-fil-A, and Litza's pizza for dinner. I think one of the most important things for him is food -- he lives for it -- but his menu is oh so limited. Having a birthday so close to Christmas is a little different, so making sure eating out is involved makes it a little different from any other day during the holiday break. I think the best part of this year's birthday will happen on Monday, January 4, when the braces come off!

Willie, Meranda, and Parker found some time to play tennis tonight but not without first shoveling the snow off the fitness center courts (crazy kids).

Here's to 2010 -- I know it will be a great year!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Christmas Eve, Eve (Two days before Christmas)

Willie and his friends have been doing a service project this school year as part of a class. They have been knitting snow hats (yes, knitting -- not with needles but hoops). After 10 weeks or so, and a few hats given to relatives and friends, we ended up with 19 that looked great. It just so happens that a couple in our ward serve as missionaries in an inner-city mission. They told us about the needs of some of the folks in their mission, so we added some stretchy gloves to each hat to make nice gifts for 19 lucky people. I think Willie will probably continue knitting hats as part his Eagle Scout project. He is ready to start that once he completes the paper work.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

A few hours all to myself . . .


It's Christmas Eve, Eve, Eve (three days before Christmas). Willie and Karl have gone over to the church to shoot some hoops, and I am in my very warm, comfortable home all by myself. This almost never happens. I am going to get my Christmas gifts for the chillins organized and wrapped and enjoy a Diet COKE and a little Christmas background music.

(I am taking a vacation day!)

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Meeting-O-Meter

I spent most of my day in a boring meeting --- arrggg! I have been to my share of meetings over the years. Some time ago I made a "meeting-o-meter" (kind of like an applause meter on old time television shows) to assess each meeting's relevance. The meter ranged from Wow! to Snooze! The secretaries in the office got so they looked forward to my spin on the meter. Well, today's meeting didn't even register. We educators (at the administration level at least) spend so much time in meetings. Like most meetings, not much to show for the 4 hours of time except a few handouts that I will probably never look at again. I will try to update my bog when I attend one of those "Wow" meetings. I'm due for one of those any day now.

P.S. Just 10 days until Christmas!

Wednesday, December 09, 2009

Always a comeback . . .


I know Haley beat me to this, but I couldn't resist. Just when Max Hall thinks he's put the "U" and faithful followers in their place, there is always a comeback!
I think there's also a Max Hall Hates Me Fan Club. The poor kid.
My personal mantra is this --
Do your work --
Do your job --
Watch what you say --
Definitely, better words to live by.

Tuesday, December 08, 2009

Basketball Playoffs!


The Hunter Hawks are going to the junior high basketball playoffs! Yes! They play Churchill Junior on Thursday. I think the boys are pretty excited -- the son and the dad. It's one step closer to the NCAA championship!

Monday, December 07, 2009

Thank you for serving our country . . .


It's December 7, 2009, the sixty-eighth anniversary of the bombing of Pearl Harbor. To those who have served, are currently serving, and will serve to preserve the freedoms we are so blessed to expereince each day, I salute you!

Saturday, December 05, 2009

Something else to think about . . .

The Cab Ride
So I walked to the door and knocked. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, and then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated'.

'Oh, you're such a good boy', she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly.

'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry.. I'm on my way to a hospice'.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued. 'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.. We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her. I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair. 'How much do I owe you?' she asked, reaching into her purse.

'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered..

'There are other passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly. 'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?

Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Something to think about . . .


I have served on all kinds of interview committees and have a collection of notes on what to do/say and what not to do/say in an interview. For those who are looking at trying out for something or preparing to look for a job, you may want to draw from just a few of my observations to be ready to do your best:

• Always have a resume with you or something to show what you’ve done and what you’re like
• Be confident, but not too confident
• Don’t focus on your years of experience or lack thereof – try to keep your interviewers guessing your age and your experience
• Never take your cell phone to an interview, and if you do, hope that it never goes off during the interview – it will disrupt everything
• Convey your passion but don’t get too emotional about it – no tears, please
• Know the skills you need for the position you seek and know how to describe them
• Convey your willingness to learn what’s required for the present and the future
• Dress appropriate to the position – this may take some investigating on your part – it’s okay to ask what the appropriate dress for the interview is
• Be clean and neat in appearance – smell good, wear washed and pressed clothing
• Avoid wearing things that may cause interviewers to make judgments about you – posts, piercings, too much make-up, CTR ring, crucifix jewelry, Sponge Bob neckties, . . .
• Be happy, cordial, smile, and say “thank you” –

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Another attempt at NABLOPOMO?

Since I failed miserably at NABLOPOMO in November, I am going to give it my best effort for the month of December. Are you ready?

NOVEMBER was a very good (but busy) month.
  • Willie ended football and started basketball. his basketball team is doing pretty well they are 4-1, and he is having mostly great games. He also had his second episode with strep throat since school started. (I guess it's time for tonsils to come out.)
  • Karl had a lot to do in school -- he is doing very well competing with the "younger" students. No students come close to his grade in his computer class, and he is holding his own in the two bio-manufacturing classes he's taking. The Friday "business seminar" has only an attendance requirement, but it has been very eye-opening and beneficial in hearing first-hand a broader perspective of the world of work.
  • We've had a lot going on at home and work. Karl has nearly completed painting the entire main floor of our house -- just the bathrooms and the main (metal) interior/exterior doors to go. It's been a huge project and not sure that we will ever get to all the touch-ups, but it looks and feels very nice.
  • Thanksgiving was very good but tiring, but I spent many hours with Mom helping her get things ready for the big day and the big dinner. We crammed 41 people into her little house. It was pretty tight and cozy. I really enjoyed the days off (the luxury of being an educator).
  • I love my work -- it is a little crazy now and again, but I am so blessed to do what I do. No day is ever like another -- there is always an issue to resolve -- things to do for kids and the adults who counsel and teach them.
  • Utah basketball is underway -- as you know, I love the basketball!

The best part of each week in any month is always Sunday afternoon when my family gets together. Never in my younger years did I ever think I would be preparing Sunday dinner for nine! It's pretty amazing and very exciting to say the least to have everyone home on Sunday. Sometimes I just sit and watch -- mostly I take care of Elliott (he always sits by me for dinner) and then Wyatt (I usually feed him his solid food after dinner) --- and then we just hang out --

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

A special moment --

I have not kept up on my November postings in honor of nablopomo. I so apologize! I had good intentions . . . not to mention that I have had some amazing experiences this month -- things worth blogging about for sure. But maybe the most amazing was the 24 hour period of time I spent with my parents last week (Tuesday and Wednesday).

My brother-in-law's father (DeeEl Stapley) passed away November 12, due to a short but valiant battle with a very progressive leukemia. I knew DeeEl not only as a close family friend but also as a fellow educator as he was the superintendent of Iron County School District for many years at which time I worked at the State Office of Education. Our paths crossed at family events and at educational meetings and conferences.

The funeral was to be held in Summit, UT, so I let my parents know that I was planning to go to the funeral and if they wanted to go, I would ride with them. They decided after much intense deliberation that they would make the journey and that I could go with them. They picked me up at 2:30 p.m. or so Tuesday afternoon. We took the truck so Dad could haul all Mom's needs (oxygen tanks, oxygen machine, wheel chair, etc.). (We had with us at least a year supply of oxygen.) Dad drove the first leg of the trip and when he got drowsy, I took over -- but he really did do most of the driving.

We spent the night in Cedar City at a hotel on the south end of town. We got take-out at Applebee's and just chilled the evening away. My nieces stayed at the same hotel so we had some company later in the evening and for breakfast the next morning. The funeral service was very nice -- very calming and reassuring that death represents only a small separation time from loved ones. All of DeeEl's kids spoke and each in his/her own way payed tribute to their Dad. A special part of the service was "The Master Choir". This all-men's choir was DeeEl's choir -- I think he was the president of the choir comprised mostly of older gentlemen (60s-70s) with a few younger generation representatives (4 or 5). They sang and opening song and a closing song, and the closing song was most moving.

Mom, Dad, and I were seated (in that order) on the second row of the chapel near the east wall. The choir began singing the closing song, "I'll Be Seeing You," a song that became popular during World War II. It was beautiful to say the least, and I knew that Mom and Dad had probably heard it together at some time during their lives. I glanced at Mom and her eyes shed streams of sensitive tears. I glanced at Dad and knew that he felt her emotion -- he gently reached for Mom's hand and squeezed it ever so gently. I leaned back in my seat so they could have their privacy and hopefully without them knowing I knew what what transpiring. I, too, was very moved by the melody and the lyrics -- I couldn't help but contemplate what my parents might be thinking, knowing that their years together are limited and that they have a very strong love for each other. It was a very sensitive few moments and I am so thankful I caught a glimpse of it ---

We arrived home early Wednesday evening, and I know Mom and Dad were invigorated just knowing they went somewhere outside of Salt Lake County and lived to tell about it. It's got to be tough wanting so badly to keep a pace in line with your desires and thoughts and your physical body just can't do it --

Saturday, November 14, 2009

A month or so in pictures --


Game Day


Junior high basketball began on Thursday -- early season this year. The boy in the picture is dressed in his best for game day. They got a win -- and the boy in the picture had 4-5 blocks, 9 rebounds, 16 points, and 4 personal fouls. He has set a pretty high standard to reach for the next few weeks.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Student of the Month


My son is 9th grade boy student of the month at his junior high. He is a pretty good boy, and it's always nice that others recognize his qualities. I know he is pretty quiet at school, but when he comes home his personality shines. He makes a laugh, he is a hard worker, he loves his little nephews, he accepts responsibility, he has amazing bodily functions, and more.
I think I am most proud of my son because he is kind and nice to others. He has a wide variety of kids/friends who like to hang out with him -- they play video games, tennis, and basketball, and do their homework and help each other out.
He's my son of the month year long!

Monday, November 09, 2009

Phone Numbers

So, do you remember old phone numbers? My Grandma Huber's phone number was HU4-0649 (HU was an abbreviation for HUNTER). Grandpa Eccles' phone number was IN6-7850 (IN was an abbreviation for INGERSOL). My parent's number was BY7-2931 for many years and I think Karl's mom's number was CY8-8901 (not sure what BY stood for but CY stood for CYPRUS). I can even remember the day of two-party lines when you could pick up the phone and listen to someone's conversation. Our family got a private line when my dad was called to be a bishop in 1963. I don't really know why I remember those numbers, I just do. Now I try to remember land line numbers, cell numbers, e-mail addresses, and a bunch of other stuff plus an area code (or three).

Saturday, November 07, 2009

Football Finally Finished

Oh my! We've been doing the football gig since July 26th. Willie has had 3 or more practices a week since then. Actually, until the games began it was five practices a week plus sometimes on Saturday. It's a huge family commitment -- but well worth it. Just when we thought the season was finished last Saturday, it wasn't because the Hunter Wolverines made the playoffs! The playoff game was this morning, Hunter vs. Bingham. It was a battle and we came up 20 points short.

Willie has had an awesome season -- he improved in every area of the game, especially in speed. He is running faster, hitting faster, and getting a jump on the game in so many ways. He finally got to see some significant defense time after many years of offense only. I loved every minute of every game even the losses.

Until next year -- and that will be high school -- serious business!

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

November

What can you say about November?

November is Pancreatic Cancer Awareness Month, National Novel Writing Month, Alzheimer's Disease Awareness Month, Transgender Awareness Month, American Diabetes Month, Lung Cancer Awareness Month, National Homeless Youth Awareness Month, Crohn's & Ulcerative Colitis Awareness Month, and the month dedicated to the Holy Souls in Purgatory in the Roman Catholic Church.

November Events
First Tuesday

In Australia, the Melbourne Cup horse race is held annually on the first Tuesday in November.

Tuesday After the First Monday
In the United States, elections are held on the Tuesday after the first Monday of November (between November 2 and November 8). In even-numbered years, members of the House of Representatives are elected to two-year terms, and about one third of the U.S. Senate are elected to six-year terms. The President of the United States is elected in years divisible by four. Most U.S. states, counties, and municipalities have some part of their election cycle coincident with this date.

November 11 is always Veterans' Day.

Third Wednesday
GIS Day is held the 3rd Wednesday of November during Geography Awareness Week.

Third Thursday
The Great American Smokeout sponsored by the American Cancer Society occurs on the third Thursday of November, one week before Thanksgiving. Smokers are encouraged to quit smoking for these 24 hours, in hopes that they will quit forever. It is also International Philosophy Day

Fourth Thursday
Americans celebrate Thanksgiving on the fourth Thursday of November. The day after Thanksgiving in the USA is a famous day for shopping known as "Black Friday," and the Monday immediately following Thanksgiving Day in the USA is Cyber Monday.

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

NABLOPOMO Slacker

I can't believe I've missed two days of NABLOPOMO -- rats! I am going to try to keep up from now through the end of the month. It's been a crazy month so far. Just when we thought little league football was over, we found out the junior team made the playoffs -- you know football players live for the playoffs. So, our team plays Bingham on Saturday, November 7, 10:30 a.m. in Park City (of all places for a neutral field). We lost to Bingham 7-6 earlier in the season -- I know we can give them a good game, in fact, we can beat them!

Friday, October 30, 2009

Whatever you say, Napoleon . . .


I have been visiting schools all month. I call it our "Fall Road Trip". The purpose is to get out and visit with the counselors, review their goals for the school year, and address concerns and questions. Aside from spending time with the counselors, I get a chance to talk to students either in the counseling center and/or the administration office. Yesterday was no different, however, my conversation with a couple of boys at one of the junior high schools was most interesting.

Me: So, why are you here on this chair outside the Principal's office?
Student 1: I wasn't doing anything, this kid was talking trash behind my back, and I told him to talk to me face to face with the trash not to say it behind my back.
Me: So, why are you here on this chair outside the Principal's office?
Student 1: I wasn't doing anything, but the kid who was talking trash about me got me in trouble.
Me: So why are you here? (Speaking to student #2 who made a loud "passing gas" noise making all of the students in the office break out in laughter and move seats away from him.)
Student 2: What? Someone took my wallet.
Me: Okay, let's talk about why you are here in school -- we can start by looking at the future -- what are your goals and plans, what do you want to be? (This is my standard question to students everywhere.)
Student 2 (the one who passed gas): I want to be a sex therapist.
Me: Okay, now get your mind out of the gutter and give me another answer.
Student 2: I want to help people with STSs.
Me: Okay, your mind is still in the gutter, let's try again --
Student 2: Okay, I want to play in the NBA and the NFL. (Mind you, this kid is about 5'3" and is wearing a pink shirt for breast cancer awareness day.)
Student 1: I know I am going to be in the NFL, I pretty much already have three scholarship offers to play in college.
Me: Oh, you do? What grade are you in?
Student 1: 9th grade (Now this student is a little taller -- maybe 5'7" or so and pretty slender.)
Me: Are you playing football now?
Student 1: No, but I have had some NFL scouts looking at me and my three friends when we play football at the park -- they said we are good enough to get scholarships -- I have three scholarship offers already.
Me: (No response, but I wanted to say "Whatever you say, Napoleon . . .")
Me: You kids have a nice day and be serious about school.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Not my month for blogging . . .


Where has this month gone? It's been nearly 20 days since my last blog post! I guess this has just not been my month for blogging. Not that things haven't happened and inspired me to blog -- just not finding the time or making the time. I have spent many otherwise blogging times reading papers, building a biome, and just keeping track of the homework for the two boys in my house -- namely, Karl and Willie. It's good work -- that homework stuff. I guess it's my hobby. I don't do scrap booking or any of that kind of stuff, but I do love editing a tough paper and working on keeping my 9th grade GPA respectable.

November is just a few days away and with it comes the NABLOPOMO -- a blog posting every day. I can't wait!

By the way, Willie has got me watching The Office. It is a show about nothing and is hilarious. The other night Willie and I were watching an episode and Karl wasn't too far from us. I commented to Willie, "I hate Dwight!" to which Karl replied, "Whose wife?" to which Willie realized, "I live in a senior citizen center!"

Yes, you may laugh all you want, but your hearing will gradually impair, too.

Have a nice day!

Friday, October 09, 2009

Autum Colors


Went for a drive over the weekend -- autumn colors are beautiful.

Wednesday, October 07, 2009

My day . . .

Got up and all that stuff . . .

Took Willie to school -- delivered box of materials to his junior high - Made high school visit -- looking for funding for a new day school program for students short on graduation requirements -- also met with counselor there about a new student who hasn't been in public school since 7th grade but has taken classes at SLCC - Made a junior high visit -- counselor just returned from FML (new baby), wanted to make sure she was transitioning back to work okay - Another junior high visit -- gave kudos to a new counselor who helped out with a shopping event for needy students sponsored by the Assistance League of Salt Lake -- one of the league members e-mailed me about how impressed she was with this particular counselor - Made in-building office visits -- trying to track down October 1 enrollment counts -- while doing so heard good news and sad (twins born to colleague's daughter, colleague's wife passed away -- long time battle with cancer) --Checked-in with Karl about Willie's ortho appointment - Attended brown bag meeting -- discussion on Response to Intervention -- perhaps a solution to long overdue school reform -Participated in conference call -- ACTE Legislative Committee -- update on bills and issues in Congress that impact education - Took a parent call -- mother trying to get her emotionally damaged student back into high school -- he wanted to drop out earlier in the month, but now wants back in -- facilitated re-enrollment - Took a call from a junior high counselor who had a student in her office who had done some cutting on her wrists in the locker room during PE class -- the counselor had never had this kind of situation -- I walked her through the process of what to do -- she called back later to report that the student was in the care of her parents --Went home to family -- Annie and the kidlets and Parker were there in addition to Karl and Willie -- nice surprise -- Willie's teeth hurt --Haley came by for piano lessons -- 3 students tonight - Karl has been painting all day -- he is doing a nice job --Headed to Wendy's -- to get something quick for dinner -- the kitchen is a mess --Homework time -- Willie is a good student --Got a call from Haley -- she reported a WVC Resource Officer assigned to a local high school was arrested for bad stuff --Checked-in with the grandparents - Caught up on blogging --Going to bed soon!

Sunday, October 04, 2009

Parallel Passions


Passion is defined as any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling -- as love or hate. So often, passion is connected to love or intimate desires. But, the passion to which I am referring is a strong, parallel essential to your well-being and identity. It's a strong and enthusiastic desire for anything -- like a passion for music. Parallel is having the same direction, course, nature, or tendency -- corresponding, similar or analogous. In geometry, parallel lines, equidistance apart, go on into infinity, never meeting. Hmmmm . . . .

On Tuesday and Wednesday last week, I had the privilege of going back to the classroom. (A colleague who is working on her teaching license is teaching {voluntarily} Financial Literacy at the alternative school took some time off. Once her teaching license is completed, she plans to get an administrative endorsement but teaching comes first). At any rate, it was fun going back into the classroom -- I don't get there too often. The students in the class were pretty much sitting in their seats, putting in the time, doing as little as possible to pass the class so that another box on the graduation credit sheet could be checked off. I challenged the students to look beyond the requirement for graduation to see if there wasn't something pushing them along -- a passion for something parallel to their school stuff (sitting in class, mainly). Needless to say they didn't get my point, and collectively explained that school was for their parents, for college, because they had to go, and so on. How sad!

What's your parallel passion? Yes, I go to work everyday, but what motivates me to get there and to do my best? Is it my family? Is it that each day presents something new and exciting -- a new student who needs help, a new problem to solve, a new idea ponder? Is it the association with great professionals? Is it the music/news I listen to on the radio? Is it the red/orange/yellow glow of the mountains in the early morning sun? Is it the success I see each of my family members achieving? Is it my faith? It's not one, two, or three parallel passions, I have too many to list. I know that it's a passion for something that energizes and transitions people from one day to the next -- I hope my parallel passions continue to accumulate.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Who's in school?


School has been in session for nearly and month, and everyone seems to be doing pretty well. Who's in school?

Elementary Students
Hannah
Eva
Max
Jacey
EJ
Hallie
Rilee
Seconday Students
Willie
Emily
Parker
Hans
Isabel
Kyle
Post Secondary Students
Travis
Eddie
Natalie
Lauren
Meranda
Preston
Rubie
Alex
James
Peter
Haley
LeeAnn
Karl

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

09-09-09

There was a big deal a few weeks back with a day that went 7-8-9 10:11 . . . (or something like that). I think today is actually more totally amazing -- 09-09-09 -- it won't happen again for for at least 100 years. (I think it's Geneil and Steve's wedding anniversay today -- Happy Anniversary! Number 9 is something to celebrate!


This past weekend (Labor Day) marked the official end of summer vacation. It really zipped by! How about a quick synopsis?



  • High school graduation -- Travis and Eddie

  • Cousin Camp in Washington, D.C. (14 travelers in all)

  • U of U Basketball Camp for Willie -- he was named "rebounder" of the camp

  • Quick trip to Overton, Nevada (Haley and Mom) to Cody's baby blessing

  • Shavy Jones Shaved Ice officially opens for business -- Willie's first JOB

  • Oquirrh Mountain Temple Open House

  • Quick trip to Dallas, TX for American School Counselor Conference (Mom)

  • 4th of July Celebration

  • Baby blessing -- William Wyatt

  • Trip to the Zoo (yes, with the grandsons)

  • Scout Camp -- Colorado River and Arches National Park (Willie and Dad)

  • Grandma gets very sick (pharmacy gave her the wrong pill in an on-going prescription)

  • Swimming and Grandma's and Grandpa's (after a very cold, wet June)

  • Lots of family time (family photo session)

  • 24th of July with the Petersen Family

  • Tennis nearly 3-4 days a week (Willie and the Woods -- and sometimes Karl)

  • REAL Salt Lake soccer game and fireworks

  • Grandma Petersen's house is sold

  • Hannah and Eva -- helping out while their parents have girl's camp and trek assignments

  • Boating at Pine View

  • Baby blessing -- Max Alexander

  • Football practice (5 evenings a week beginning July 27)

  • More family time -- Sunday dinners and a few outings, lots of lunches (Hires, Training Table, Chick Fil-A, etc.), and just hanging out time with cousins, friends (Chunky and Allen), and anyone who happened to stop by

  • Aquarium visit

  • U of U Bookstore

  • Many trips to Shavy Jones (a lot of family support -- it was awesome)!

  • Family retreat to Snowbird (tram ride, hike, chair lift, Alpine slide and zip line -- plus an evening of watching old 8 mm home movies)

That about covers the summer -- not counting yard work, church assignments, home repairs, and more . . . Now, just think -- only 111 days until Christmas!

Thursday, September 03, 2009

September . . .

Since my last posting, school's started, football's going full speed, homework's on the kitchen table, we're up early in the morning, and all that stuff. It's good to be back in the routine of things.

I had a pretty humbling experience on Tuesday -- I went with a few "sisters" from the Stake Relief Society to visit a few families in the area. Little did I know when I left my home, that I would see and feel what I did. We visited a couple from Figi. They live in one of two basement apartments in a house smaller than mine. (There are actually four apartments in this house.) The husband and wife are in their late sixties/early seventies. They have lived in Utah since 2002, their son met and married a girl from Orem while they were attending school in Hawaii. They came to Utah because that son and his family live here. They have two other married children and their families who are still in Figi. I am not sure where all they have lived in Utah, but for the past year or so they have lived where we visited.

To get to the apartment we walked down 10-12 very narrow cement steps. We were warmly greeted by the husband, a very handsome man. His wife of many years is recovering from a few really bad strokes the last of which left her partially paralyzed and with impaired speech. She has been recovering slowly, and after three months in a rehab center she can now walk with help and speak (slowly) but understandable. The spirit of love and kindness and testimony radiated in their humble home. They were dressed very nicely, clothes washed and pressed, . . .

This is where things get amazing. I have visited hundreds of homes in my life east to west and north to south. Most homes have their clutter and their stuff -- whatever it is. And most homes could use a good cleaning and straightening up. Well, this one was very different -- there was little if any stuff. The apartment consisted of three rooms -- a kitchen/living area, a bedroom, and a bathroom -- that's it. The furnishings in the kitchen/living area included some very old appliances, a small worn rectangle table with four very different kitchen chairs, a couch covered with an afghan, an old-fashioned boxed television, and that's it. No pictures on the wall, no magazines, no bookshelf, no entertainment center, . . . There were a couple of family photos on the tv, but pretty much nothing else. The floor was linoleum, no carpet, no rugs. The apartment was very clean, I mean very clean, and had a very pleasant, clean smell. The couple was so happy to have us visit. They were so very kind and appreciative. We talked about the wife's recovery and the difficulty of taking care of each other. The husband explained that he had taken some time off from his job to be home for our visit. He told us that his work was at Wallmart and that he walked there and back (no car). He walks to church, too. His wife could probably make it if they had a car. Their neighbors help out taking them to the doctor --

They were amazingly happy, thankful, humble, spiritual people living in a most simple home (they were so proud of their home) and they obviously didn't need much stuff to survive or to bring such good intrinsic values to their lives -- they had each other, their family, their faith.

As we left, I kissed the sweet wife on the cheek and thanked her for teaching me through her spirit. After visiting another home, I came home to my house of stuff -- more stuff than I have room for or need. I hope that some of the spirit I had felt earlier is evident in my home -- stuff aside -- and I am so thankful for this experience -- it was truly amazing!

Sunday, August 23, 2009

And angels are coming to visit the earth . . .

Sunday morning Karl and Willie and I went to the seventh session of the dedication of the Oquirrh Mountain Temple of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It was very good . . .




  • I have watched the building of this particular temple since the announcement by President Hinckley in General Conference, October 2005, that it would be built to its dedication this monring.
  • This is a special temple because it is named after the mountains of the west side of Salt Lake County -- our mountains. I grew up in the Magna area at the foothills of the Oquirrhs and lived in what was called the Oquirrh Stake (later named Magna Utah Stake).
  • My oldest daughter and her family live in Day Break, the Kennecott Land Development in South Jordan (Kennecott Land donated the gound for the temple). We can see the temple from her home and as we drive to and from her neighborhood.
  • Our family participated in the temple open house on the last Saturday of June. I was inspired and impressed by the decor -- especially its collection of art that celebrated Utah artists and annonymous pieces done just for the temple.
  • I drove by the temple at least once a month (if not once a week) during its construction. I can't find words to describe my feelings each time it came into view -- just a beautiful monument to behold.
  • With Shavy Jones in operation this summer and so close to the temple, I saw a glimpse of the ongoing parade of families and others going the temple and the countless volunteers who directed the whole open house operation. It's amazing to me that things of that magnitude actually come to pass.

At the dedication session Sunday morning, I was pretty content to sit with my eyes closed as speakers and choir numbers followed a well-outlined script. But, as the dedication concluded and the choir and congregation began to sing "The Spirit of God like a fire is burning," I felt a certain sureness that what we had just experienced was from God. When the words of the song moved to " . . . the visions and blessings of old are returning, and angels are coming to visit the earth," my eyes welled up and the spirit of the Lord was in my heart, and it felt good.

I hope the angels in heaven will be with me and my family -- when they come to visit the earth.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Football Practice

Little league football practice began July 25th. It's been 3 weeks of practice -- every week night from 5:30-8:30 p.m. I don't know of any other sport in the universe that requires so much practicing. I am not sure why it's takes so much time to master the football techniques of crouching down, holding still until the ball moves, and then crashing into other players to knock them down, and pile up until the whistle blows. I guess it's fun -- Willie never complains. He's moving faster and stronger this year than in any other year. I just don't know why it requires so much practicing. If all the kids on the team spent as much time doing homework and studying, we have the most educated, intelligent kids around.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Summer Countdown


My brother and his wife are very involved in church callings -- John is in the stake presidency and Lori is the young women's president. They have had a girls camp assignment and a trek assignment this summer, so their girls have spent some time at the grandparents (2 nights and 3 nights). That means that everyone who can (my girls, Willie, my sisters, and my nieces and nephew Parker) helps out with their care. it's not that they need extra care -- it's that the grandparents are 80-ish and don't have near the energy they need to keep up with an 11 year-old and a 6 year-old. It's been fun for me and my family to have a chance to get to know the girls without their parents around. They are very nice young girls and they are growing to be great kids. The picture above was taken at Willie's football scrimmage on Thursday night. Their faces show evidence of face painting fun at the grandparents. They have been introduced to video games and text messaging and eating a lot of fast food treats (Shavy Jones shaved ice and shakes from the Arctic Circle) in our care. I guess that's okay . . .

Friday, July 31, 2009

All in a day's work --

  • Special needs student who just had a heart transplant wants to repeat 10th grade.
  • Thirteen year-old going into 8th grade needs a young parent program because she has a baby.
  • Seventeen year-old wants to take the GED because she can't get her grades from a previous high school, and the school she is to attend in our district won't enroll her without them.
  • Counselor who just finished master's degree last year (08) finally got the U of U to recommend him for an educator license after way too many "I'll look into that" from the counseling folks at the U.
  • Counselor who trusted a friend and colleague who now wants to discontinue their friendship needs support.
  • My good friend and colleague announced his retirement to take a position as principal at probably the best high school in the state (another district of course) and needed to tell me before I heard it through the "grape vine."
  • Student moved to Georgia and needs grades, attendance, and discipline records sent from Granite High (now closed with no plan for taking care of the 100 years of student records -- long story) to her new school by Wednesday.

Just another day at Judy's Help Desk --

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

It's football season!

I drove by the park on my way home and saw this big kid in his #63 football practice jersey. The kid is my son and he and his dad have begun another year of football. This is the last year of Ute Conference football -- next year it's on to the high school. My boy is big enough and smart enough and good enough to play with this big boys, but he is playing with his age group and I am very glad he is. It looks like there are 25 or more excited kids who have come out for the team and by the looks of their enthusiasm they could be a competitive team.

It will be fun!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

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Saturday, July 18, 2009

Great Scout Camp


The boys who live in my house are home safe and sound from scout (venture/varsity) camp. They spent 3 days in Moab (one of the hotter spots in Utah). They (13 boys and 5 adults) camped at Big Bend Campground, did a day trip on the Colorado River, hiked to Delicate Arch and other arches in Arches National Park, drove to and viewed Dead Horse Point, spent some time as tourists in downtown Moab, and really had a great time. They came home needing a hug, a shower, and a cool place to hang out. It seemed like they were gone forever!
(As you view the photos, Karl is in the raft and Willie is in the kyak/canoe with Mayson.)

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Blog catch up time . . .

I haven't kept my blog up this month, so here goes . . .
There are several postings for July 15, so if you are interested, please read on.

Willie has a "JOB"!


Annie and Ross have opened up a little shaved ice trailer, Shavy Jones, in South Jordan. Willie has been hired and is a shaved ice employee extraordinaire. Even when he was little, he told us he wanted to work in a snow shack when he grew up. Well, it's not exactly a snow shack, it is a few steps above, and he is loving every hour of work. Business seems to be picking up each day and new flavors are being added all the time. I find myself craving a shaved ice with buried treasure (ice cream) and cream nearly every day. Yesterday I settled for a "black pearl" (blue raspberry and grape, ice cream in the bottom and cream on the top) and it was delicious. It's exciting to say the least, and I am so proud of the kids for their entrepreneurship!

Grandsons

We went to the ZOO last week and Wyatt was not nearly as interested in the animals as Elliott, but we had a great time in spite of his yawns. The weather was delightful and we capped off the day's adventure with swimming at great-grandma's. Elliott tells me all the time that he "wuvs him" (translation - he loves Wyatt). He really has been a very good big brother -- no strangling or trying to send him back to the hosptial at all.

Summer takes forever to get here and is gone in a flash . . .

My old fashioned garden was in full bloom with daisies a few weeks back when this photo was taken, and now the sunflowers are nearly ready to bloom. Once the sunflowers/lazy Susans are in bloom, the summer is on the downslide. Actually, today is July 15, it is the middle point of summer vacation. It's been an eventful summer -- nice vacation to start it off, basketball camp, baby blessings, Shavy Jones, temple open house, a conference in Dallas, a zoo trip, family photo session, test driving a new car, and now scout camp. No complaints, I just wish it would slow down a little -- we still have so much to do.

Saturday, July 04, 2009

July 4, 2009

Just another summer day for some, but not for me. I can't remember what I was going to write here. Maybe I will remember another day.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

The Stars at Night are Dull not Bright . . .

I've been in Dallas, Texas for a few days -- annual conference of the American School Counselor Association. It's been warm, muggy, and hazy in the heart of Texas -- the stars are difficult to see at night because of the haze/smog.
I will be home tomorrow and can't wait to see my family. I usually do some kind of presentation at the conference -- below is a description of this year's.

20 Years and Staying the Course
All Practice Levels
All Experience Levels
0.125 CEUs

School counselors know the specifics
of putting a school counseling program
in place, and they are excited about it.
But maintaining program momentum is
challenging to say the least. Hear from
district school counseling leaders about
their success in sustaining their school
counseling program for 20 years and their
secrets to staying the course.

Judy Petersen, Guidance Director; Leigh Ann
McCann, Guidance Coordinator, Granite School
District, Salt Lake City, Utah

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Father's Day

The father of my children is a pretty good guy. We have been married for a long time and have three great kids. Karl has always been and will always be there for the kids -- school work, any event, homework, yard work, project work, business ventures, and even house work now and again. When the kids were young, Karl took care of them pretty much Monday through Thursday evenings while I either went to school or taught evening classes. We passed each other in the driveway many afternoons for many years. As the dad, he always did what was needed and if he had to go somewhere -- the kids always tagged along. The daughters were the best for many years -- they loved to play ball and watch ball games, read historical non-fiction and fiction, listen to and collect all types of music, go to concerts, and pretty much hang out with their dad. About the only things they didn't like about their dad were the long explanations about historical events and places.

Once the son came along and began to grow into a walking talking person, good student, sports enthusiast, and video game junkie -- the dad moved into a new life dimension. He makes time to be with the son in every aspect of his life -- even scouts. The daughters, now married, have moved to the status the "opening band" in their dad's life and the son has become the "main event" (I think they are okay with that -- they are still part of the concert). Through it all --Karl will always be the best dad ever -- I know that for sure! Happy Father's Day!